"Soft words soften the hearts
that are harder than rock,
harsh words harden hearts
that are softer than silk."
i never question my parents for the person i am today. i can't blame them either. if i could blame them, surely they would blame their parents and their parents would definitely blame their parents' parents because every generation tends to blame the one before them. there is no end. it will be like finding the original between an egg and a hen. it's only our own future that we would destroy if we just keep on arguing about our present and our past. so, throw out your last-year-full-of-crime calendar. today's the day. and mind your words.
assalamu'alaikum warahmatullah... :)